By Ben
Rayner, Sound
Senior Staff Writer:
BRANFORD:
Last week
on one of the coldest nights of the season, the reality of what all the
economic figures and statistics add up to was grimly apparent at the Community
Dining Room (CDR). With a line of hungry local residents out the door, that
room packed with more than 90 people was faithfully served by the dedicated
volunteers at the CDR, including the kitchen general, Caryl Forselius.
Caryl has
been a nurse her whole life, so she knows a lot about compassion and care. She
says she was inspired to help out at the CDR, where she has volunteered for
eight years and been kitchen coordinator for more than two, by her husband who
has been part of the efforts for two decades.
“My husband
has volunteered here for 20 years. He does a lot of the holiday coordinating,”
says Caryl. “As a family we have always had a an attitude that we like to do
this–food drives and community projects. I was asked to help one day and just
got involved. It’s something we just like to do. I worked as a nurse and with
Alzheimer’s patients, so this is an extension of that in some way.”
Providing
sustenance and friendship for those in need since 1985, the CDR is a private,
not-for-profit organization providing food, support, and most important
companionship to its shoreline neighbors. The members of the organization have
witnessed a steady increase in demand in the last six months.
But along
with that dire fact is the positive news
that donations are also on the rise. Despite their own troubles and financial
worries, Branford residents are still there for their neighbors.
“The
generosity of this town is really incredible. It has been tough the past six
months and every time we are at the point where we don’t know what to do or
where to turn, someone will walk in with a donation that will save the day,”
says Caryl. “The donations have been very generous so far, turkeys and someone
brought in five hams this week–that will make Thanksgiving special this year.”
The CDR
also received good news recently in
the form of a $10,000 matching grant from the Community Foundation for Greater
New Haven. This means that all donations received between Nov. 1 and Jan. 15
will be matched, making each contribution that much more valuable.
Caryl says
the holiday donations are always strong but their efforts continue year-round.
She asks residents to remember that post-holiday months are traditionally the
period where donations drop off.
“It’s
important that people understand we serve the needy–these donations are vital
and they make a difference. We always appreciate any donations from a dollar to
a can of soup, especially around the holidays, but keep us in mind the rest of
the year. The winter months after the holidays are often our toughest time of
the year,” Caryl says.
The Community Dining Room
The
Community Dining Room (CDR) serves the south-central Connecticut shoreline from
East Haven to Old Saybrook including Branford, North Branford, East Haven,
Guilford, and Madison. The organization serves more than 3,500 meals each
month.
The CDR
serves lunch, noon to 1 p.m., Sunday to Friday, and every second and fourth
Saturday; breakfast, 9 to 10 a.m., Saturday; and Tuesday Family Dinner and
Storytime at 5:30 p.m. All are welcome.
There are
several ways to help the CDR:
Donate
Money
The CDR
shops at the Connecticut Food Bank, its major source for perishable foods. With
the Community Foundation Grant, all donations will go even farther.
Donate
Securities
Giving
appreciated securities might have additional tax benefits that should be discussed
with an accountant or attorney. Contact the CDR for more specific information
about how to make the donation.
The CDR is
always in need of professional help like cleaning and repairs. Currently its
ice machine is broken and needs friendly coaxing from someone with the
necessary skills.
For info
and to make a donation, call 203-488-9750 or email pkral@communitydiningroom.org.
Pictured: Caryl
Forselius keeps bellies full and faces smiling as the kitchen coordinator at
the Community Dining Room.
Photo by
Ben Rayner